From Robbins, Illinois...DWYANE WADE!

Two posts in one day?! Woah, let’s not get carried away Justine. I decided to jump right into things with #ReflectionsofGratitude because it was actually this memory that inspired the idea.

Monday, thanks to Facebook memories, I was reminded that FIVE years ago I interviewed Dwyane Wade and number of others at a fundraising celebrity kickball tournament hosted by Baron Davis. While I hadn’t forgotten this memory, I could not believe it was five years ago.

Five years ago, when I was a bright-eyed, bushy tailed, 23-year-old and a relative rookie to LA. I was hustling my way through the sports journalism field, interning here, working there, and just trying to get experience wherever I could. I was young and inexperienced in a HUGE market and my own biggest critic. Often feeling like I was a hamster on a wheel, I was never sure if I’d ever be as good as [insert person x, y, and z] to be able to compete. Every time I posted a video or interview, I was terrified.

Suddenly, five years ago seems about right. That kid was young and green. If I could go back and tell young Justine some things, I’d say, Justine, at 23, you’re navigating your way in a big city. You’re getting amazing opportunities. You’re interviewing Dwyane Wade, the guy who hung on a poster in your dorm room freshman year! You’re sitting down with athletes who people dream of interviewing. And you’re only getting better. As it turns out, that reel of yours isn’t so awful after all.

I’d say, enjoy the process. You’re doing it. You’re not so bad. I’m actually proud of you! 

My, how life has changed and evolved since then. With no regrets and to my own content, about a year after this moment, I transitioned away from the journalism field to the digital side. (Although, I think I feel an itch coming back.) I continued to push forward and grow and navigate my way through this very competitive city. Five years later, I reluctantly admit that I’m an LA vet now. This city is my city. The world is at my fingertips and these experiences only equipped me for greater ones! And for that, I am grateful! I'm grateful for where the journey has taken me.

So a reminder to myself and anyone else, the journey is DOPE. The process IS the fun part. Thanks life, let’s keeping moving on up, but maybe not to the east side...I think I like the west side.

 

*If you have WAY too much time on your hands, feel free to watch the rest of the interviews from the event below, but remember, this is a judgement free zone. Haha

**Also, if you've never seen the Dwyane Wade commercial that inspired this post title, do yourself a favor and watch it here. It's one of the greatest basketball commercials ever made.

Reflections of Gratitude

You know, life has been pretty good to me. Everyday truly feels like a new adventure and with each new adventure comes a new experience, a new interaction, a new memory.

Also with each passing day, it feels like time moves a little bit faster. I finally understand why as kids, adults were constantly telling us that time flies. I wish I could take back all of those eye rolls, because as it turns out, it does.

While I don’t take these moments for granted, it seems like the more I do, the less I remember. Half the time I can’t remember what I did yesterday and that’s not an exaggeration. I blame digital overstimulation, lack of disconnection and the inability to slow down. I actually think those are proven facts, but if not, they're at least my great excuses.

Either way, while we’re recording and documenting more than ever before, I feel like I’m organically retaining less.  Sometimes it feels like the memories I do have are actually just the few bits of a story that I can piece together from a picture that I’ve saved.

An ongoing regret of mine is not keeping a journal, writing on paper the small details, the intimate moments and the feelings that certain experiences gave me so I can properly evoke these memories.

Nonetheless, every time I find myself glancing back at these tangible memories, whether scrolling through my camera roll on my iPhone, or my Instagram timeline, or glancing at Facebook memories, I find myself overwhelmingly filled with gratitude. I believe reflection creates gratitude because it takes us out of our current situation or circumstance for a moment and reminds us of where life has taken us and how much we’ve grown, overcome, developed, and persevered.

So, in the midst of trying to defeat my journal struggles, I've decided I’m going to begin regularly reflecting on these memories and where life has taken me since. Forget Throwback Thursday, welcome to #ReflectionsofGratitude. I would love for you to join in with me on social media or with your own posts!